It has been a while between drinks, I am sorry it has been so long - I could offer many explanations - basically life and many other projects at hand. All that aside, hello again. I came up with this site many years ago because I myself have been through many break ups, some were good some were bad, but one thing for sure, is they were all for the best. Break ups are difficult, they are disruptive and heart breaking. But things fall apart for a reason. It is OK, you always get better, it is a type of grief so sure you might go through six months of pain, but guess what? You start to feel better. You start loving life again. You start to flirt again. You start to love yourself again! You really just have to get through the tough part and then you emerge stronger, resilient, beautiful, and wise. Yes you may have really been in love, but the truth is that you will love again and you deserve to be with someone that truly loves you. Breaking up is hard to do. You might become a recluse for a while, you might even get drunk and smoke cigarettes - just know it is temporary and one day you will feel better than you ever felt when you were with your last beau.
A good practise while you are going through this pain is to hang out with friends, keep busy and use the spare time you have found yourself with looking after yourself as best you can. You deserve to be nurtured, breaking up is hard to do, so do it simply love yourself and fill that emptiness with self love. Soon enough you will be radiating with happiness and then the whole world will see you shine.
Many people will contribute to this blog - it will be advising you to fill the gap that is left in your heart after a break up with love for yourself until you radiate!